Trending through Sunday was renowned content creator Xtian Dela’s mother, who for some reason was only seeking to have contact with her son. Who apparently has been blocking, avoiding her for 4 years.
The YouTuber, failed Radio presenter and popularized content creator ONLY after his Club Covid thingy that hit Instagram in 2020, has chosen to address his mother’s claim through a blog.
They may use guilt or fear to control their child’s behavior. They may also use bribery or other rewards to get their children to do what they want.
This manipulation lead to the child feeling like they have no control over their own life,
Such parents invade their children’s privacy, such as going through their children’s belongings without permission. This lack of boundaries makes children feel like they do not have a sense of privacy,reads the Blog in part
Xtian puts blame on his mother , more after terming her thee’ toxic parent.
The fifth point is blame shifting.
They may also make their child responsible for their emotional well-being. This can lead to the child feeling like they are always at fault or responsible for their parents’ feelings,”Xtian
Noble of him to address the issue this way.
Dela’s mother says she took care of him after his father passed on.
Arthur Mandela Nyongesa was born in 1990. Beginning 2019, he began disappearing for periods of time. When I told him to come home and visit us, he didn’t come often and would say ‘mum I’m very busy’ and I said its okay,
From there, he went silent and that is how I’ve never heard from him again. He cut me off, he blocked me and I saw it fit to go and appeal where Arthur can easily be found. Let him know that his mother wants him back,” she said.Dela’s Mother – Bishop Nyongesa
His mother’s efforts to get in touch with his wife Fatma Banj, have been futile.