Why do men care about a woman’s body count?

In dating, partners often ask each other about their sexual history.

One of the most common questions is about the number of sexual partners they have had. The body count.

Why do men care about this? Do people even tell the truth about their body count anymore?

And why does it matter if someone has had 3 partners or 17?

There is a double standard when it comes to body counts.

Men are often praised for having a high body count, while women are often shamed for it. 

Lets focus on the men and try to explain why they care about a woman’s body count.

Just curious – curiosity often leads us to ask questions about our partner’s past experiences. Men’s interest in a woman’s body count can stem from a natural inquisitiveness about their partner’s journey, just to know.

Cultural influences -Cultural influences and societal norms can shape how men think about and value a woman’s body count. These influences may create expectations about what is considered “normal” or “acceptable”. For example, some men will find women who have have had many partners promiscuous or less valuable.

Insecurity/Comparison – For some men, the number of sexual partners a woman has had can become a point of comparison. This can be due to insecurity about one’s own experiences or concerns about meeting certain expectations.

The mystery of accuracy – The accuracy of shared body count information can be questionable. In a society that values privacy and may have reservations about judgment or stigma, individuals may choose not to disclose their entire sexual history. This lack of disclosure can further complicate the significance placed on specific numbers.